people tend to contradict themselves. and people my age sometimes just cannnot decide on what they want.

if a teacher is too fierce, she is not a good teacher. if a teacher is too un-fierce, she is not a good teacher either. teachers who teach students harshly, are unkind. teachers who teach too unharshly, are bad teachers. what exactly do we want?

if we really think about it, it is in fact very difficult to make people like us happy. we want too perfect things that is non-existent in this world. it just isnt there. what we do is we lament about how bad it is, how imperfect it can be and do not catch the good of it. and so, we often miss the real essence of one. be it a person or an incident.

we really have to learn to look at the good side of things. at least thats for me. because there surely is a good side to everything. EVERYTHING.